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CASEL
Relationship Skills

Relationship Skills

Discover a curated collection of free resources dedicated to building strong relationship skills as outlined by CASEL. Educators, students, and parents will find practical lessons, interactive activities, and real-world examples to foster communication, teamwork, and conflict resolution. Empower learners to form healthy connections and thrive socially, both in and out of the classroom.

Communication Skills

Cooperation & Teamwork

Conflict Resolution

Healthy Boundaries

Peer Support & Allyship


Suggested Resources

How Do We Build Trust?

Tier 1

4th Grade Class

45 mins

A whole-class lesson that explores the foundations of trust and why it’s vital for strong classroom relationships. Students will identify trustworthy behaviors and practice building trust in group activities.

Empathy Express

Tier 2

6th Grade Group

30 mins

A small-group resource focused on developing empathy by stepping into others’ shoes. Students will use role-play and reflection journaling to understand peers’ perspectives.

Conflict Crushers

Tier 1

5th Grade Class

50 mins

A dynamic lesson teaching proactive conflict-resolution skills. Students will learn to identify, de-escalate, and solve interpersonal conflicts in constructive ways.

Listening Superpower

Tier 3

3rd Grade Student

25 mins

An individualized skill-building session for students who struggle with attentive listening. Focused tasks and quizzes will sharpen active-listening strategies.

Teamwork Triumph

Tier 1

7th Grade Class

60 mins

A collaborative class session that uses games and activities to strengthen cooperative skills. Students work in teams to achieve shared goals and reflect on group dynamics.

Respect Rules

Tier 2

8th Grade Group

40 mins

A guided small-group workshop on recognizing and demonstrating respect in various situations. Activities include practice scenarios and a peer-feedback rubric.

Friendship Formula

Tier 1

3rd Grade Class

45 mins

A whole-class exploration of friendship qualities. Through readings and discussions, students will decode what makes lasting friendships and set personal goals.

Apology Toolkit

Tier 2

5th Grade Group

35 mins

A small-group session teaching genuine apology strategies and restorative language. Students practice crafting and delivering effective apologies.

Emotional Check-In

Tier 1

1st Grade Class

10 mins

A quick daily warm-up routine that helps students identify and share emotions, setting a positive tone for relationship skill development.

Nonverbal Ninjas

Tier 3

4th Grade Student

20 mins

An individualized focus on reading and using nonverbal cues effectively. Custom activities and games help students become communication ninjas.

Connection Quest

Tier 1

6th Grade Class

55 mins

A class-wide project guiding students through building meaningful connections with peers. Students complete partner interviews and share discoveries.

Social Signal Secrets

Tier 2

2nd Grade Group

30 mins

A focused small-group exploration of reading social signals during conversations. Activities include matching cues and decoding partner messages.

Community Resources

Community Resources

Friendship Skills

This is a 30-minute Tier 2 small-group workshop for 6th graders focused on CASEL Relationship Skills—empathy and cooperation. Students will engage in interactive activities to practice perspective-taking, collaborate on role-play challenges, and reflect on supportive peer interactions.

Tier 2
5/13
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Karen Sullivan

S

MA Counselor, Social Worker, Behavior Interventionist

Friendship Check-Up

A quick 15-minute pre-test to gauge 5th graders’ relationship skills aligned with CASEL standards, helping tailor future social-emotional lessons. This Tier 1 activity provides teachers with baseline data on students’ collaboration, empathy, and communication abilities.

Tier 1
Tuesday

malane

Psychologist

The Heart of Healthy Relationships

This lesson teaches middle school students essential conflict resolution and communication skills to foster healthy peer interactions and understanding. Through engaging discussions, hands-on activities, and clear assessment criteria, students will develop empathy and practical strategies for resolving conflicts peacefully.

Tier 1
5/21
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Patty Allen

E

CA Social Worker

The Power of Positive Connections

Students explore how building and nurturing positive connections supports their emotional and social well-being. This 1-session lesson for middle schoolers uses interactive activities to strengthen relationship skills and self-awareness.

Tier 1
5/20
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mschwartz

S

MA Social Worker

Building Positive Relationships

This lesson focuses on helping students identify the characteristics of positive relationships and develop strategies to be assertive in the face of peer pressure. By understanding these concepts, students will be better equipped to make informed decisions and maintain healthy relationships. This lesson is important as it empowers students to recognize and cultivate positive influences in their lives, fostering a supportive and respectful environment.

Tier 1
2/25
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Mayra Mendoza Saenz

q

TX Counselor

How Do Emotions Drive Success?

An interactive lesson exploring CASEL’s five competencies and their impact on college and career readiness, fostering self-awareness and goal setting for 12th graders. This Tier 1 classroom-wide session helps students recognize and leverage their emotions for future success in a single 50-minute session.

Tier 1
6/3

Kerry Robinson

Instructor

Restoring Relationships: Teaching Empathy

This lesson equips adults with strategies to teach children how to restore relationships after negative interactions. By focusing on empathy and understanding, adults will learn how to guide children in resolving conflicts and rebuilding trust. This lesson is important as it empowers educators and caregivers to foster a supportive environment where children can learn essential social-emotional skills.

Tier 1
2/25
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Alicia Gutierrez

q

TX Counselor

Values and Emotional Intelligence

This lesson introduces middle school students to the concept of Emotional Intelligence (EI) and its importance in personal and academic success. Through a video and a guided activity, students will explore the four key skills of EI: perceiving, using, understanding, and managing emotions. This lesson is crucial as it helps students develop self-awareness and empathy, which are foundational for building strong values and relationships.

Tier 1
2/25
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Marcus Virgil

a

NC Behavior Interventionist

Building Blocks of Healthy Relationships

This lesson focuses on the essential elements of healthy relationships, such as communication, trust, and mutual respect. Through interactive scenarios and guided discussions, students will learn to identify and cultivate these components in their relationships. This lesson is crucial for developing social-emotional skills that are vital for personal and interpersonal growth.

Tier 1
2/25
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Loren Baccari

S

MA Counselor

Caring Connections

This lesson introduces 6th graders to the importance of interpersonal skills and characteristics of caring, such as empathy, kindness, and courtesy. Through a brief discussion, activity, and worksheet, students will explore how these skills impact personal relationships. This lesson is crucial for developing social-emotional skills that enhance students' ability to form positive relationships and understand others' perspectives.

Tier 1
2/25

Rhett Lange

q

TX Counselor

Who’s in Your Circle?

An interactive lesson that guides 6th graders to identify and appreciate their peer, family, and mentor relationships, building empathy and trust through mapping exercises. This 50-minute, Tier 1 lesson equips students with relationship skills aligned with CASEL standards, using hands-on activities and reflective discussion.

Tier 1
5/22

木白

E

CA Parent

Ready Set Connect

This 5-session group intervention helps 10th graders develop key social skills—active listening, assertive communication, empathy, conflict resolution, and teamwork—through engaging activities and practice. These 30-minute sessions build essential interpersonal abilities to support students in all areas of life and boost their social confidence.

Tier 2
5/12

Christina Sakelarakis

S

MA Psychologist

Emotional Intelligence in Relationships

This lesson focuses on helping students recognize and manage their emotions in intimate relationships through self-reflection exercises and empathy-building tasks. By developing emotional intelligence, students can improve their interpersonal skills, leading to healthier and more fulfilling relationships. This lesson is crucial for fostering responsible and productive citizens.

Tier 1
2/25
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Brittney Bullard

a

NC Social Worker

Building Bridges: Healthy Relationships

This lesson focuses on teaching students about healthy relationships and effective communication. Through experiential and game-based learning, students will engage in activities that promote understanding and practice of these skills. This lesson is crucial for developing social-emotional skills that are essential for lifelong success in personal and professional relationships.

Tier 1
2/25
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Andrea Gillis

S

MA General Education Teacher

Building Healthy Relationships

This lesson introduces 8th-grade students to the concept of healthy relationships by exploring mutual respect, trust, and communication. Students will learn to identify the characteristics of a healthy relationship and discuss how these can prevent relationship violence. This lesson is important as it equips students with the knowledge to foster positive interactions and recognize unhealthy patterns, promoting their social and emotional well-being.

Tier 1
2/25
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Temi Kufeji

h

NY Counselor

Building Healthy Relationships

This lesson explores the characteristics of healthy relationships and their contribution to mental well-being. Through role-plays and group discussions, students will identify key traits of healthy relationships and reflect on their importance. This lesson is crucial for developing social-emotional skills and promoting mental health awareness among students.

Tier 1
2/25
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Matthew Malowski

S

MA Counselor

Quick Connect: Supportive Relationships

In this brief session, students will explore the core elements of supportive relationships and engage in an activity to identify supportive figures in their lives. This lesson is important as it helps students recognize the value of supportive relationships in enhancing their well-being, fostering a sense of belonging, and building resilience.

Tier 1
2/25

Rebecca Thompson

S

MA General Education Teacher

Healthy Relationships and Communication

In this lesson, students will explore the components of healthy relationships and effective communication through interactive activities. This is important for building social-emotional skills, conflict resolution abilities, and fostering respectful interactions among peers.

Tier 1
2/25

Diana Lopez

l

PA Instructor

Our SEL Check-In

In this two-session Tier 1 SEL lesson for PreK–5, students explore the five CASEL competencies through an interactive survey and reflective quiz. These 10-minute sessions help teachers gauge students’ social-emotional strengths and growth areas, fostering self-awareness and responsible decision-making in a supportive classroom environment.

Tier 1
7/21
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Destony Stewart

h

NY School Administrator

Friendship Detectives

In this 30-minute kinder lesson, students will explore relationship skills by identifying and practicing friendship qualities. Using story, video, activities, and a fun game, learners will build empathy, sharing, and cooperation. Perfect for classroom-wide Tier 1 support.

Tier 1
6/16
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Olivia Rutledge

q

TX Counselor

Building Bridges

Boost elementary students’ emotional intelligence by promoting empathy and relationship skills through cooperative games and role-playing exercises. This one-session lesson empowers students to understand others' feelings and strengthen friendships through fun, interactive activities.

Tier 1
5/13
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Caroline Lopez

h

NY Behavior Interventionist

Healthy Relationships 101

In this lesson, students will explore the components of healthy relationships, learning to identify positive and negative relationship traits. Through discussions and group activities, they will apply these concepts to real-life situations. This lesson is important as it equips students with the skills to foster healthy interpersonal relationships, which are crucial for their social and emotional development.

Tier 1
2/25
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Paul Tentindo

S

MA Psychologist

Navigating the Maze of Relationships: A Personal Journey

This two-session lesson for 7th graders in a private school setting focuses on understanding and navigating personal relationships. It's designed to provide students with the tools to build healthy relationships, recognize unhealthy patterns, and develop communication skills. This lesson is crucial for personal development and emotional intelligence, empowering students to form meaningful connections and handle social challenges effectively.

Tier 1
2/28
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Nancy Love

T

MD Instructor

Building Bridges: Social Awareness & Relationships

This lesson focuses on developing social awareness and relationship skills through interactive activities and reflective discussions. Students will engage in a video analysis of social interactions to better understand the dynamics of communication and empathy. This lesson is crucial for fostering emotional intelligence and improving students' ability to navigate social situations effectively.

Tier 1
2/25
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Avriel Emanuel

h

NY Social Worker